By Naomi Bloom
MANAGING EDITOR
We all know the holiday well. Pink and red streamers thrown across the rails and rafters, heart-shaped decorations plastered up on bulletin boards throughout the halls. If that wasn’t enough of a sign that Valentine’s Day was afoot, maybe the other signs would make it clearer: The sudden uptick of PDA, which is nearly impossible to avoid, or the classmate upset about the lack of flowers from their partner.
While Valentine’s Day can be a wonderful occasion to celebrate a relationship, it is one that has become extremely capitalized on, especially over the last couple of years. According to the National Retail Federation, that spending added up to $23.9 billion last year—the second highest to the $27.48 billion spent on Valentine’s Day in 2020. “Capitalism has done what it has done with every holiday,” said Andover High School senior Andrew Magner. “[It made] it into a day that requires gifts and fancy items.”
Unfortunately, that large amount of spending intensifies and is intensified by the societal pressure and expectation to give gifts, mostly to romantic partners. This occurs even in high school. “There should be no expectation to spend money, regardless of age,” said Diya Ganesh, AHS senior. She added that many students may not have jobs or a source of income, and if they do, they may be more focused on saving it for college or their after school plans. “Showing your love through gifts is not the only way to show love.”

On that note, some students said that the cost of a gift is not the only determining factor of its value. “I think gifts are a really nice way of showing that you love someone, but I don’t think that it’s the price that matters,” said AHS senior Grace Young. “It’s how personal the gift is because it shows that you thought of them.” Magner agreed, saying, “What really matters is the effort put into it.”
Additionally, there are alternatives to gifts that are not only more cost-friendly, but can be just as meaningful. “The magic of holidays like Valentine’s day is that it is really up for interpretation and can be celebrated in a number of ways,” said Magner.
All of the students interviewed agreed that the most valuable gift on Valentine’s Day is spending time with their loved ones. “I think being present and showing active interest in their personal life shows affection,” noted Emma Pantazi, AHS senior. “I am so much more touched if someone asks me how my guinea pigs are doing than if someone gives me a card.”
Ultimately, though, it is completely up to each person’s own love language for what they choose to do, if they plan on celebrating. “My favorite way to celebrate is to go to CVS the day after Valentine’s Day and buy all the chocolate that is on sale,” said AHS senior Rachel Irza. She also noted that people shouldn’t feel ashamed if they opt out of the festivities.
Magner agreed: “As long as you and whoever you spend your time with are doing something you both enjoy, no matter how big or small, it’s a successful Valentine’s Day.”






